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The story of how, five years ago, this apparently happily married woman, approaching her 40th birthday, went from browsing erotic literature forums to having online sex with men looking for “naughty fun”, of how the virtual tipped into reality when she had a proper affair, of how her husband found out, left her and came back, is the subject of a compelling new memoir, Turned On, published next week. The author, who wishes to remain anonymous, agreed to this interview on the understanding that it would be done on the telephone with her publicist at her side.I would not be allowed to mention where she lives and only that she works as an associate producer for a TV broadcast company.

Dent says she wrote it after posting a shorter version of what happened on a relationship forum after her marriage broke down and because her therapist suggested writing might help her recovery.“I thought my actions marked me out as odd, strange and perverse in the way only people who find themselves addicted to online activity can be, but in fact I am one of thousands, perhaps even millions. Having decided not to have children and seemingly without any serious hobbies or interests to sustain her intellectually, a chasm of boredom opened up. He put on weight, claiming that’s what happily married men did — and his snoring became intolerable. Their sex life stopped and Dent started to withdraw emotionally as well as physically.“If people don’t talk about problems or manage to deal with them, somehow or another they try to escape and I was putting a plaster over the problems but not dealing with them.”Sometimes they would go to the races — his passion, not hers — and on one occasion she met a group of married women who called themselves the racing widows.Use our anonymous form to safely and securely pass information about crime or a Most Wanted appeal to us. We don’t want to know your name so please don’t tell us this.Tell us as much as you can, even if you think it might not be helpful.At the height of her addiction to cyber-sex, Lucy Dent would spend entire nights awake on her laptop, chatting to a string of anonymous online lovers, only switching her computer off as the sun rose and her husband Andrew was waking up.

Dent says she wrote it after posting a shorter version of what happened on a relationship forum after her marriage broke down and because her therapist suggested writing might help her recovery.“I thought my actions marked me out as odd, strange and perverse in the way only people who find themselves addicted to online activity can be, but in fact I am one of thousands, perhaps even millions. Having decided not to have children and seemingly without any serious hobbies or interests to sustain her intellectually, a chasm of boredom opened up. He put on weight, claiming that’s what happily married men did — and his snoring became intolerable. Their sex life stopped and Dent started to withdraw emotionally as well as physically.“If people don’t talk about problems or manage to deal with them, somehow or another they try to escape and I was putting a plaster over the problems but not dealing with them.”Sometimes they would go to the races — his passion, not hers — and on one occasion she met a group of married women who called themselves the racing widows.Use our anonymous form to safely and securely pass information about crime or a Most Wanted appeal to us. We don’t want to know your name so please don’t tell us this.Tell us as much as you can, even if you think it might not be helpful.At the height of her addiction to cyber-sex, Lucy Dent would spend entire nights awake on her laptop, chatting to a string of anonymous online lovers, only switching her computer off as the sun rose and her husband Andrew was waking up.She became so caught up in her virtual world that she sometimes carried on texting them in the evenings, while her husband sat opposite her at dinner, pouring her a glass of wine, oblivious to what she was doing.