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04-Sep-2016 11:16

If you have been dating a man for less than 6 months, then it is likely that you are still in the process of proving your Value as a potential mate to one another, so you’ll need to be aware of how to maintain that High Value if you truly love the man you are with. If you’ve been dating regularly for longer than 6 months, and want to know why he pulls away and doesn’t contact you, try my article Why he Pulls Away when You Need him the Most and Why Men Pull Away. It’s the reason people try to play hard to get, it’s the reason people try to be mysterious. And to hell with anyone who says otherwise, because your future health and safety and your children’s future (if you want them) depends on how great your relationship is, and it depends on the quality of your man, and the quality of your man reflects how much High Value you show up with.(Click here to take the quiz “How High Value High Status Am I on Facebook? BUT – you still want to maintain your High Value because that matters.

It’s EVERYTHING when it comes to attracting the best mate you possibly can. Click here to know how to stay high value when when he pulls away I want you to know that it is ok that you feel ANY of these things when a man pulls away, becomes distant and cold, and just goes quiet:– Suicidal– Terrified– Anger beyond belief– Abusive– Feel like screaming– Hateful– Jealous– Obsessive– Like your heart is being smashed in to pieces. Becoming invested in a man is serious business and if it goes wrong, it hurts like hell.

And then resent other women for having something that you feel like you can’t have. I know it seems like many relationship and dating advisers tell you that you can’t do ‘this’ or ‘that’ if he isn’t contacting you because it will “push him away”. It’s safer than stalking a man and it’s less fear-based than snooping through his things – email, snail mail, his Facebook, car, whatever.

It’s true that we do many things from a place of fear as women, that in turn get a fearful response or a no response at all from men. Start retreating to somewhere quiet and safe, and feel EVERYTHING.

”)Attracting the man for you is absolutely crucial as a woman, so even more reasons for you to maintain your High Value. It matters that you get the practice if you ever want a relationship with another man, and it matters if you really DO love and care for this current man you’re focused on. If you’ve somehow stopped to read this, that is a wonderful start.

It’s like playing an endless game of tug of war where there is never a winner, because all there is on the other end is fear. We need to MEET that need for certainty, by getting you to retreat to somewhere safe to feel everything. This will replace other Low Value behaviours for now.

It adds fuel to the fire, and you end up losing yourself in this awful spiral of fear and pain and anger. But when you’re dating a man, and you’re heavily invested in him, and you guys don’t trust each other yet, it MATTERS a lot how you show up. It will give you the strength and the base for building Higher Value within yourself.(Click here to take the quiz “How Feminine Am I Actually?

Many women have had bleeding hearts because they loved a man and he disappeared for good.

I understand it – sometimes, men bring out the absolute WORST stuff – they make us be this off the rails woman we never thought we were. Many women before you have tragically felt the pain of a man who withdrew from her.

Some women marry a man and that man sleeps with other women, or even rapes other women.

It’s like playing an endless game of tug of war where there is never a winner, because all there is on the other end is fear. We need to MEET that need for certainty, by getting you to retreat to somewhere safe to feel everything. This will replace other Low Value behaviours for now.It adds fuel to the fire, and you end up losing yourself in this awful spiral of fear and pain and anger. But when you’re dating a man, and you’re heavily invested in him, and you guys don’t trust each other yet, it MATTERS a lot how you show up. It will give you the strength and the base for building Higher Value within yourself.(Click here to take the quiz “How Feminine Am I Actually? Many women have had bleeding hearts because they loved a man and he disappeared for good. I understand it – sometimes, men bring out the absolute WORST stuff – they make us be this off the rails woman we never thought we were. Many women before you have tragically felt the pain of a man who withdrew from her. Some women marry a man and that man sleeps with other women, or even rapes other women. In history, some women use their power of talk’ and the power of their negative emotions to get a cheating man killed.